Losing a pet can be as traumatic as losing a family member, because in many cases that's what they are. In fact researchers at Cornell University College of Veterinary Medicine have identified four stages of grief: 1) Shock & Denial, 2) Searching & Yearning, 3) Disorganization, and 4) Reorganization. So don't feel embarrassed or ashamed by what you're experiencing. It's all part of the grieving process everyone goes through.

How one deals with grief is a very personal process however, that does not mean you have to mourn alone. We recommend you use these resources while coping with the passing of your pet.

Support Hotlines/Websites
Washington State College of Veterinary Medicine
866-266-8635
www.vetmed.wsu.edu/PLHL/

University of California-Davis, Center for Companion Animal Health
800-565-1526
www.vetmed.ucdavis.edu/ccah/petloss.cfm

Cornell University College of Veterinary Medicine
www.vet.cornell.edu/Org/PetLoss/Resources

Books
Coping With The Loss of A Pet,
By Christina M. Lemieux, PH.D.

When Only Love Remains: The Pain of Pet Loss,
By Emily Margaret Stuparyk

A Final Act Of Caring: Ending The Life Of An Animal Friend,
By Mary and Herb Montgomery

Good-Bye My Friend,
By Mary and Herb Montgomery

A Special Place for Charlie: A Child's Companion Through Pet Loss,
By Debby Morehead